Gratitude to Providence Church on the Occasion of Celebrating the Completion of My Doctoral Work

Thank you all for being here celebrating the completion of my doctorate! The Brito’s are humbled and honored by your presence. I want to offer a few words of gratitude:

First and foremost, I thank the Triune God for his goodness to me. When I began my work in January of 2016, I thought that academic work was just academic work that I had to work through. Little did I realize in my first course that a bunch of grown pastors could cry so much. We did a lot of good pastoral theology, but the parts I will most cherish was the intimacy of laughing with fellow pastors when Sinclair Ferguson told a joke no one understood and crying when he would begin the class in those biblical saturated prayers. Studying books about the ministry, theology, and practice encouraged me through various seasons of my pastorate these last five years.

I remember coming back from a week of classes where we devoured over 2,000 pages of Puritan literature and someone came to me and said, “Your preaching has changed.” Theology that drives men to piety and purity must change the man and his actions.

My entire work for my dissertation narrowed down to the role of three rituals in pastoral life: friendship, learning, and leisure. Under friendship, I explored the biblical theology of relationships in the Garden of Eden and how relationships after the Fall departed from the idea of pure relationality. God is man’s true friend, but man needs another to manifest the two central features of genuine friendship which are service and mission. I spent a considerable amount of time on Augustine and Bonhoeffer’s theology of friendship and how their definitions of friendship helped their pastoral efforts. Both Augustine and Bonhoeffer were surrounded by friends in monasteries or imprisonment and those communal forces strengthened their service to the kingdom.

Additionally, I spent a substantial amount of time focusing on what it means to be a pastor/theologian, and how learning rituals of priests in the Old Testament carry on to the liturgical calling of the New Testament pastor. To pursue education in the ministry and to always pursue learning is a biblical route of refreshment for pastors.

Finally, I delved into leisure practices in the Bible. The Sabbath is made for man, which means God created the Sabbath to play with his children. In the Sabbath, we discover what true leisure is. Pastoral theology is incomplete if a man cannot play with his flock in eating, drinking, laughing, and singing with them. I had the inimitable task of contradicting one of my favorite writers, Josef Pieper, and then arguing for what I call “holistic leisure.” But probably most enjoyable was delving into Martin Luther’s practices on leisure and concluding that Luther’s theology of play shaped much of his criticism of the Church of the day. For Luther, the Church in Rome was wrong theologically because practically they understood God as a God who is not fatherly in his interactions with his children. A God who does not play with his children produces a theology that is saturated with sad works instead of joyful and exuberant works.

Of course, everything I wrote, I wrote it in the context of Providence Church. This is the Church that befriended me when I was a fresh-out seminary pastor at 28 with a 6-month-old. This was the Church that encouraged me when I wanted to pursue counseling certification to help me shepherd more effectively and when I came with the idea of pursuing this doctorate. It is also the church composed of people from whom I have learned so much about life, love, and laughter. And this is the church that I have had more fun as a human being than a human should be allowed to have in a life-time. This community is the embodiment of friendship, learning, and leisure. Anything I accomplish, any selfie I take, comes with the Providence photobomb in the background.

Thank you for your support financially and prayerfully. Thank you to Pastor Stout and Elder Gilley for being flexible, supportive, and full of hearty amens these last five years. I thank God for a wife that has the capacity to move mountains if she could for a living, but chooses rather to tolerate a husband who missed birthday parties and Friday and Saturday activities for almost five straight years and who in a twinkling of an eye would take the kids to the mountains in Georgia so daddy in all his glorious grumpiness could finish one more chapter. When I passed my oral exam, it was a realization that my wife was with me every step of the way. I owe Lego-Land trips, 150 gallons of ice cream cones, and a lot of daddy time to my five children who have been puzzled why Dr. Daddy is always in his office working on something else. I love my little Burritos more than they will ever know.

Finally, I am grateful– down in the hierarchy of gratitude– for gifts of creation, especially Ethiopian coffee beans and pipe tobacco from Guatemala. My many thanks to all those who provided abundant coffee to me over the years and supplied a farm’s worth of pipe tobbaco.

God is infinitely good to me in the completion of this project, but he is also infinitely kind to allow me to shepherd a congregation so loving, patient, smart, hospitable, and full of grace. Your friendship means the world to me, your life and commitment to truth has taught me so much, and your ability to party every week like it’s Resurrection Sunday never ceases to surprise me.

Thanks for being here and enjoying this special moment with me.

I would like to ask my dear brother, Rev. Mickey Schnider, who has mentored me and who is in many ways the embodiment of a faithful ministry, to pray for us before we eat.

How Thanksgiving and Happiness are Linked

The results are in! Gratitude wins the day by a landslide. In fact, as a result of this monumental victory, psychology departments are developing entirely new areas of study on the little known fact of gratitude. According to Robert Emmons, author of Thanks! How Practicing Gratitude Can Make You Happier, “Gratitude is literally one of the few things that can measurably change people’s lives.” a There are measurable benefits. Did you hear that?

Linked to this discovery is the helpful suggestion made by Michael Hyatt that keeping a gratitude journal can be immensely beneficial as we build an arsenal of gratitude pages. Ending the day by listing the reasons for thanksgiving, however small, can actually serve as a rich spiritual exercise.

Of course, we are aware that psychological journals are behind the times. Gratitude has always been a Christian virtue. St. Paul had already broken the news. Later, in the 20th century, Bonhoeffer alluded to this in his remarkable little book Life Together. There, he takes us back to the glories of gratitude in community life. For Bonhoeffer, if you don’t know where to start in the gratitude journey, start with thanking God for your community. He writes:

If we do not give thanks daily for the Christian fellowship in which we have been placed, even where there is no great experience, no discoverable riches, but much weakness, small faith, and difficulty; if on the contrary, we only keep complaining to God that everything is so paltry and petty, so far from what we expected, then we hinder God from letting our fellowship grow according to the measure and riches which are there for us all in Jesus Christ.

The Christian faith is a food religion. The heart of it is found in the death/resurrection of Jesus the Messiah. He became for the world the bread of life. This bread then becomes the food for hungry souls to feed. In the Christian tradition, it is articulated most clearly in the table of the Lord. The table is a table of joy and gratitude; so much gratitude that it is usually referred to as the Eucharistisc Table. The word eucharistia means “thanksgiving.” Emmons says that “when we feel grateful, we are moved to share the goodness we have received with others.” b It is this sharing of food that forms this table of thanksgiving.

Gratitude builds us in love and compels us share in the shalom of God with others. To whom much is given much is required. To those of us who partake of God’s goodness often and daily, we are called then to compel others with our own lives and words to share in this community of gratitude formed by the God who gave us His own life.

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I Give Thanks

Paul’s letter to the Philippians is filled with thanksgiving. Calvin writes that when Paul refers to things that are joyful he breaks forth in thanksgiving, which, Calvin observes, “is a practice we ought also to be familiar.”

Thanksgiving is the antidote to bitterness and gossip. How often do we falsely accuse others only to boost our own selfish interests? Thanksgiving is the reaction of someone overwhelmed by the goodness of God. It is the by-product of a life-story that echoes praise. Be certain that when bitterness and selfishness arise it is out of an ungrateful heart.

This is another reason worship is so central to the life of the church. Worship is a thanksgiving gathering. The very word we use for the Lord’s Supper, namely Eucharist, means thanksgiving. Worship is practice in giving thanks.